I think most of the incels have serious issues with a lot of things, looks, money, and self confidence. If only they had… is the reason that they fail with the opposite sex, they will only date Supermodel types, but have more ordinary looks and, again they are the inverse to the equation that they are trying to balance, bald, living in the parent’s basement, failed to launch, broke. Yet look around as you walk down the street an you will see some truly unattractive people holding hands with someone of the opposite sex.

20 years ago I could have been Identified as one of these people, but would never Identify myself with them, then I realized my problems were just that, my problems, not someone else, and and not being imposed on me by women that rejected me. I did a lot of work on myself, improved my outlook on life, lowered my standards, as I certainly was not rich, nor particularity handsome, and not much or a comedian either, and on the shorter and stockier side of things. In short I was much more of an average guy, and should be pursuing much more average women, guess what, everything changed.